Saturday, June 30, 2012

Prescription: Recovery

Right before my last relapse, after having just gotten out of the hospital for an operation for stomach hernias, I played Doctor with my prescribed pain medications. I took more than the prescribed dosage because I wanted quick relief. I was in pain. Then I didn’t wait long enough for the next prescribed dosage time. Before you know it, I was immobile on the sidewalk, crazed and an ambulance was summoned by a passing stranger (apparently)) and back to the hospital I went, having been just released a few short hours earlier.
If it takes eight pills to kill you, I would feel safe taking six, and then two hours later I might start wondering if it would be safe to take another one or two. Never was it a case of wanting to commit suicide. I just wanted to get as high as safely possible.

After the first drink, there is no other.

(Sotto): Vatchi? He still sounds a little like he wants to be somewhere where he’s not. Not a lion seeking his prey, or a vegetarian stalking wild asparagus. Ha! That’s a good one! I think he’s still looking to get high. Or at least romanticizing his phantoms.

I know I can never drink again. Countless times, after varying amounts and degrees of sobriety, I have tried. The alcoholic insanity always comes back and always takes over, whether after one drink or twenty.
Smoking marijuana, perhaps, when it finally becomes legal? I really don't know. I just fear that other drugs might retrigger my alcoholism. I don't think I can do any drug 'socially' now.
"Just for Today," as I've heard in Narcotics Anonymous, "just for today, I will not pick up."
Being so level-headed no longer gives me a sense of self-contempt as it once did, early on in my sobriety. Staying sober makes living sober and being sober, not only tolerable, but desirable.
It had taken me nearly sixty years to say "I'm okay," and mean it and know what that means. That might never have happened were I not an alcoholic. Who knows? All I know is... I'm okay, "Just for Today."
 
from All Drinking Aside (Rough Draft, Chapter 41)

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